I enjoy making others happy or make them feel comfortable. I enjoy being

Today went a thing to me. I have several times in various forums lovingly, but points backhoe been reprimanded for concern benq myself part of "what I need and want" as submissive, more than "what I can give" as submissive. Both reflections have their own reason and raison, but I must admit that yes, my focus has been much on my needs. In light of personal development in general and my experiences over the past four years in particular, has just this egocentric bevidstliggørelse been necessary. I am grateful for it. But now I feel the need to once again turn their eyes away from what I can get, but what I can give.
I was given an assignment: Write 20 sentences about their own expectations of your role as a slave. It took me some forethought, for "own expectations of my role" appeared quite challenging to relate to me. However, after some time, began the pen drive itself. benq Some of my reflections included, benq how as a slave would represent my Lord, how I could make him proud how I would do my best to meet the requirements and the characteristics I wanted to have such caring, honesty, openness, obedience, etc.
I enjoy making others happy or make them feel comfortable. I enjoy being 'on' and act in a field where I know the limits and can feel both comfortable, confident and resourceful. I enjoy being caring, giving, empathy and learn about others. Not least, I have experienced that my greatest joy has been when my (former) owner could have looked at me, his woman, benq and sincerely feel proud that I am His.
In some D / s auspices seems to me to be almost taboo that the submissive demands. When I write "demands" I do not mean as such that as the sub table specific benq conditions or expect benq specific actions. No, I'm referring benq to, that it should not be taboo that the submissive is aware of its needs, its ignition points, his personal benq challenges and articulate these. But the team can not believe how it is healthy (for me) to try to shift focus and learn to become aware of what I can offer in a relationship - as a woman, as sub, as a person.
Dear quill Another thoughtful posts from your "pen". It is in all ways an exciting journey you are doing. It is even some extreme relevant thoughts and considerations you have had. And yes, you have to know yourself, or at least be interested in getting to it, whether benq you are Dom or Sub! None of us starts with the "perfect" (so far!) Although it is important to remember it is a process and that it is actually the process that is interesting. I think that the process is best when you accept and acknowledge the fact that for both Dom and Sub often lifelong education and patterns to be changed (as you correctly benq writes benq about). In a sustained and healthy D / s relationship, it's very much about giving benq space and spacious, everything from the wishes and demands, expectations and conditions ... Who is it to have an overview, empathy and understanding, and act on the same? So "of course" ... is NOTHING taboo. Around your process with affection, I highly recommend reading "In Francis of Assisi's footsteps" of Kirstin Flood. It is both exciting, benq thoughtful and has in many ways changed my understanding of devotion, besides it's a good story. Sincerely Sebastian
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